Life would be so much more peaceful if we were not offered choices. It would seem that we are always at crossroads every waking day of our life. And that's definitely stress.
The first time I went through this was right after I passed my grade 10. I remember my dad’s solemn look. Is it science or commerce? “Commerce”, I said. And from that decision on, I have been literally ‘choosing’ my way.
Not many days after that first big decision, I remember dad telling me, “Be always responsible for your decisions. Good and Bad.” It didn’t make sense to me then and my teen mind screamed in my head “wateva!” too soon.
Fast-forward.
I realise now that no matter what decision I took, I alone am responsible for it. I am the one in charge of what I am. It changes everything. And it does feel much better. Thank you Dad.
I really envy those who keep telling, I just go with the flow! I wish I could think like a fish. (No offence. And I really do envy you.)
As for me, I am a lot happier making my choices now. It’s just another life-altering decision!
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